BULLYING
Bullying affects all youth, including those who are bullied, those who bully others, and those who witness bullying. The effects of bullying may continue into adulthood.
INTRODUCTION
In 2014, the Centers for Disease Control and Department of Education released the first federal definition of bullying. The definition includes three core elements:
• Unwanted aggressive behavior
• Observed or perceived power imbalance
• Repetition or high likelihood of repetition of bullying behaviors
This definition helps determine whether an incident is bullying or another type of aggressive behavior or both.
Research on Bullying
Bullying prevention is a growing research field that investigates the complexities and consequences of bullying. Important areas for more research include:
• Prevalence of bullying in schools
• Prevalence of cyberbullying in online spaces
• How bullying affects people
• Risk factors for people who are bullied, people who bully others, or both
• How to prevent bullying
• How media and media coverage affects bullying
What we’ve learned about bullying:
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• Bullying affects all youth, including those who are bullied, those who bully others, and those who witness bullying. The effects of bullying may continue into adulthood.
• There is not a single profile of a young person involved in bullying. Youth who bully can be
either well connected socially or marginalized, and may be bullied by others as well. Similarly, those who are bullied sometimes bully others.
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• Solutions to bullying are not simple. Bullying prevention approaches that show the most promise confront the problem from many angles. They involve the entire school community—students, families, administrators, teachers, and staff such as bus drivers, nurses, cafeteria and front office staff—in creating a culture of respect. Zero tolerance and expulsion are not effective approaches.
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• Bystanders, or those who see bullying, can make a huge difference when they intervene on behalf of someone being bullied.
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• Studies also have shown that adults can help prevent bullying by talking to children about bullying, encouraging them to do what they love, modeling kindness and respect, and seeking help.
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QUICK FACTS/STATS
Types of Bullying
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Physical: Physical bullying involves aggressive physical intimidation and is often characterized by repeated tripping, pushing, hitting, kicking, blocking, or touching in some other inappropriate way. Even though it's the most obvious form of bullying, it isn't the most prominent.
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Verbal: Verbal bullying involves putting down others and bullying them using cruel, demeaning words. Verbal bullying includes name calling, making racist, sexist or homophobic remarks or jokes, insulting, slurs, sexually suggestive comments, or abusive language of any kinds. Verbal bullying is one of the most common forms of bullying.
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Social: Social bullying is a common form of bullying among children and students. It involves exclusion from groups, spreading malicious rumors and stories about others, and generally alienating people from social acceptance and interaction. Next to verbal bullying, social bullying is one of the most common forms of bullying.
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Cyber: Cyberbullying is the least common type of bullying, but it can be just as damaging as other forms of bullying. It includes any type of bullying that occurs via the Internet or through electronic mediums. The most common types of cyberbullying include:
• Text message bullying
• Picture/video clip bullying via mobile phone cameras
• Email message bullying
• Bullying through instant messaging
• Chat-room bullying
• Bullying via websites
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Rates of Incidence
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One out of every five (20.2%) students report being bullied. (National Center for Educational Statistics, 2019)
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A higher percentage of male than female students report being physically bullied (6% vs. 4%), whereas a higher percentage of female than of male students reported being the subjects of rumors (18% vs. 9%) and being excluded from activities on purpose (7% vs. 4%). (National Center for Educational Statistics, 2019)
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41% of students who reported being bullied at school indicated that they think the bullying would happen again. (National Center for Educational Statistics, 2019)
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Of those students who reported being bullied, 13% were made fun of, called names, or insulted; 13% were the subject of rumors; 5% were pushed, shoved, tripped, or spit on; and 5% were excluded from activities on purpose. (National Center for Educational Statistics, 2019)
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A slightly higher portion of female than of male students report being bullied at school (24% vs. 17%). (National Center for Educational Statistics, 2019)
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Bullied students reported that bullying occurred in the following places: the hallway or stairwell at school (43%), inside the classroom (42%), in the cafeteria (27%), outside on school grounds (22%), online or by text (15%), in the bathroom or locker room (12%), and on the school bus (8%). (National Center for Educational Statistics, 2019)
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46% of bullied students report notifying an adult at school about the incident. (National Center for Educational Statistics, 2019)
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School-based bullying prevention programs decrease bullying by up to 25%. (McCallion & Feder, 2013)
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The reasons for being bullied reported most often by students include physical appearance, race/ethnicity, gender, disability, religion, sexual orientation. (National Center for Educational Statistics, 2019)
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The federal government began collecting data on school bullying in 2005, when the prevalence of bullying was around 28 percent. (U.S. Department of Education, 2015)
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Rates of bullying vary across studies (from 9% to 98%). A meta-analysis of 80 studies analyzing bullying involvement rates (for both bullying others and being bullied) for 12-18 year old students reported a mean prevalence rate of 35% for traditional bullying involvement and 15% for cyberbullying involvement. (Modecki, Minchin, Harbaugh, Guerra, & Runions, 2014)
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One in five (20.9%) tweens (9 to 12 years old) has been cyberbullied, cyberbullied others, or seen cyberbullying. (Patchin & Hinduja, 2020)
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49.8% of tweens (9 to 12 years old) said they experienced bullying at school and 14.5% of tweens shared they experienced bullying online. (Patchin & Hinduja, 2020)
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13% of tweens (9 to 12 years old) reported experiencing bullying at school and online, while only 1% reported being bullied solely online. (Patchin & Hinduja, 2020)
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Effects of Bullying
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Students who experience bullying are at increased risk for depression, anxiety, sleep difficulties, lower academic achievement, and dropping out of school. (Centers for Disease Control, 2019)
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Students who are both targets of bullying and engage in bullying behavior are at greater risk for both mental health and behavior problems than students who only bully or are only bullied. (Centers for Disease Control, 2019)
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Bullied students indicate that bullying has a negative effect on how they feel about themselves (27%), their relationships with friends and family (19%), their school work (19%), and physical health (14%). (National Center for Educational Statistics, 2019)
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Students who experience bullying are twice as likely as non-bullied peers to experience negative health effects such as headaches and stomachaches. (Gini & Pozzoli, 2013)
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Youth who self-blame and conclude they deserved to be bullied are more likely to face negative outcomes, such as depression, prolonged victimization, and maladjustment. (Perren, Ettakal, & Ladd, 2013)
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Tweens who were cyberbullied shared that it negatively impacted their feelings about themselves (69.1%), their friendships (31.9%), their physical health (13.1%), and their schoolwork (6.5%). (Patchin & Hinduja, 2020)
​Cyberbullying
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Among students ages 12 – 18 who reported being bullied at school, 15% were bullied online or by text. (National Center for Educational Statistics, 2019)
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Reports of cyberbullying are highest among middle school students, followed by high school students, and then primary school students. (Centers for Disease Control, 2019)
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The percentages of individuals who have experienced cyberbullying at some point in their lifetimes have more than doubled (18% to 37%) from 2007-2019. (Patchin & Hinduia, 2019)
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When students were asked about the specific types of cyberbullying they had experienced, mean and hurtful comments (25%) and rumors spread online (22%) were the most commonly-cited. (Patchin et al., 2019)
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The type of cyberbullying tends to differ by gender. Girls were more likely to say someone spread rumors about them online while boys were more likely to say that someone threatened to hurt them online. (Patchin et al., 2019)
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Those who are cyberbullied are also likely to be bullied offline. (Hamm, Newton, & Chisholm, 2015)
Cyberbullying Among Tweens (9-12 Years Old)
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One in five tweens (20.9%) has been cyberbullied, cyberbullied others, or seen cyberbullying.
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49.8% of tweens said they experienced bullying at school and 14.5% of tweens shared they experienced bullying online.
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13% of tweens reported experiencing bullying at school and online, while only 1% reported being bullied solely online.
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Nine out of ten tweens use social media or gaming apps.
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Tweens shared they were engaging on the following sites, apps, or games: YouTube, Minecraft, Roblox, Google Classroom, Fortnite, TikTok, YouTube Kids, Snapchat, Facebook Messenger Kids, Instagram, Discord, Facebook, and Twitch.
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Tweens who were cyberbullied shared that it negatively impacted their feelings about themselves (69.1%), their friendships (31.9%), their physical health (13.1%), and their schoolwork (6.5%).
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Tweens reported using a variety of strategies to stop the bullying including blocking the person bullying them (60.2%), telling a parent (50.8%), ignoring the person (42.8%), reporting it to the website or app (29.8%), and taking a break from the device (29.6%).
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Two-thirds of tweens are willing to step in to defend, support, or assist those being bullied at school and online when they see it.
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Barriers to helping when tweens witness bullying at school or online included being afraid of making things worse, not knowing what to do or say, not knowing how to report it online, being afraid others kids will make fun of them, being afraid to get hurt, and not knowing who to tell.
Bullying Statistics for High-risk Groups
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Students with specific learning disabilities, autism spectrum disorder, emotional and behavior disorders, other health impairments, and speech or language impairments report greater rates of victimization than their peers without disabilities longitudinally and their victimization remains consistent over time.
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23% of African-American students, 23% of Caucasian students, 16% of Hispanic students, and 7% of Asian students report being bullied at school. (National Center for Educational Statistics, 2019)
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23% of African-American students, 23% of Caucasian students, 16% of Hispanic students, and 7% of Asian students report being bullied at school. (National Center for Educational Statistics, 2019)
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70.1% of LGBTQ students were verbally bullied (e.g., called names, threatened) in the past year because of their sexual orientation and 59.1% because of their gender expression, and 53.2% based on gender. (Kosciw, Greytak, Zongrone, Clark, & Truong, 2018)
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28.9% of LGBTQ students were physically bullied (e.g., pushed, shoved) in the past year because of their sexual orientation and 24.4% because of their gender expression, and 22.8% based on gender. (Kosciw et al., 2018)
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48.7% of LGBTQ students experienced cyberbullying in the past year. (Kosciw et al., 2018)
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59.5% of LGBTQ students feel unsafe at school because of their sexual orientation, 44.6% because of their gender expression, and 35% because of their gender. (Kosciw et al., 2018)
QUICK TIPS/ADVICE
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What to do when your child is being bullied (kidscape PDF)
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Stay calm
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Reassure your child that it is not their fault they are being bullied, and work together to find solutions.
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Record the bullying incidents in writing
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Understand your rights if your child fears going to school.
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Work with the school to create a safe and supportive environment around your child.
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Consider whether your child would be happier in another school or with a different educational setting.
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Act on cyberbullying
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Build self-confidence
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My Child Is Bullying Others (resource page)
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Talking about bullying with your child
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Children are never too young to start thinking, learning and talking about friendships. Together, you can talk about how to treat others, and what to do if they face a bullying situation.
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Open conversations are healthy. As a parent or carer, you’re in a good position to support and guide your child to develop positive relationships and be there for them if they need help.
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Discuss things you’ve seen in stories
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Stories shape a child’s view of the world at any age. A book, TV show or film can be a spark for a conversation. Talk together about what happened in the story, how characters might feel, and what they should do. Break down stereotypes: sometimes children’s stories might stick to portraying bullying as only physical violence, so discuss other ways that bullying can happen.
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Talk about what bullying is
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An easy acronym to use is STOP: Several Times On Purpose. Bullying happens repeatedly and is intended to hurt or harm. Explore types of bullying such as physical, social, emotional, verbal and online bullying, and use these ideas to give names to things your child might have seen or heard about.
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Show an interest in their friendships at school
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Be curious about who your child is friends with, and what they’re saying about social groups at school. If something sounds like it could be bullying, or it could be unacceptable, mention it to your child and talk it through. Encourage them to form friendships with people who make them feel good about themselves, both face to face and online.
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Explore being an active bystander with your child: our page on taking action against bullying gives you tips for how to talk about this.
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Let your child know they can talk to you about anything
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You are important in your child’s life and they need to know if they’re being bullied you’ll be on their side. If they ever raise issues about bullying, visit our page on helping your child with bullying to learn what to do next.
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Nurture respect for others
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Our page on helping children to respect others has tips for nurturing your child’s sense of empathy, developing early social skills, managing conflict, being assertive and talking about friendship.
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RESOURCES
Organizations
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Anti-Bullying Alliance: Guide for Parents
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Charleston County School District (CCSD)
• Bullying Protocol Process Flowchart
• Bullying Brochure
• CCSD's Folleto para Padres sobre Anti-Intimidación
• CCSD's Bullying Tip Line Flyer
• CCSD's Línea de Prevención para la Intimidación
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The U.S. Department of Health and Human Services website: www.stopbullying.gov
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Teen Line, a help line operated by and for teens: www.teenlineonline.org
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​PACER's National Bullying Precention Center: www.pacer.org/bullying
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We Are Family: Charleston
Providing affirming spaces for LGBTQI+ youth in the Lowcountry since 1995
​• Social Support Groups: Weekly and bi-weekly groups where youth engage in various topics/activities in an affirming space with the support of trained adult facilitators
• GSA COALITION SUPPORT: Leadership development and coalition building for a network of Gender & Sexuality Alliances (GSAs) in Charleston Tri-County area middle and high schools
• PARENTSPACE: Peer-led support group for and by parents and guardians of LGBTQI+ youth and young adults
• KIDSPACE: A supportive and affirming play group for youth 10 and younger
• WAF DISCORD: Online platform for more virtual programming, such as gaming, movie streaming, discussions, and more!
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Cybersmile Foundation (DHHS) - Helpline
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STOP BULLYING NOW HOTLINE (USA) 1-800-273-8255
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The Bully Project: The Bully Project is a film and activism site with tools for educators, parents, students, advocates and those interested in helping those with special needs.
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National Runaway Safeline: The National Runaway Safeline has a wealth of anti-bullying resources, including a downloadable template that can be used to notify school administrators about bullying.
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Teaching Tolerance: A project of the Southern Poverty Law Center, Teaching Tolerance has a resource list and a film kit for the film Bullied: A Student, A School and a Case That Made History.
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Edutopia: Edutopia has a recently updated resource list for bullying prevention including ideas for cultivating empathy, diversity and inclusion and suicide prevention.
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Stomp Out Bullying: Stomp Out Bullying has created a parent resource for parents who learn that their child is being bullied complete with tip sheets, cell phone guides and help understanding bullying.
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Bully Bust: Bully Bust provides resources to help make the school climate better for everyone, including personal stories, videos, information on bullying and cyberbullying and more.
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SafeKids.com: SafeKids.com has a mission for safer digital citizenship, focusing their anti-bullying efforts on cyberbullying prevention and awareness, and how to increase online empathy.
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Committee for Children: The Committee for Children provides video resources for educators and families to promote the safety, well-being and success of children in life and in school.
SUPPORT GROUPS AND OTHER ORGANIZATIONS
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Childline
Whether you're feeling stressed, anxious, lonely or down, no matter what it relates to - ChildLine is a private and confidential service, meaning that what you say stays between you and ChildLine.
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Think U Know
The Child Exploitation and Online Protection (CEOP) Centre's website provide the latest information on the sites you like to visit, mobiles and new technology. Find out what's good, what's not and what you can do about it. If you look after young people there's an area for you too – with resources you can use in the classroom, at home or just to get with it. Most importantly, there's also a place which anyone can use to report if they feel uncomfortable or worried about someone they are chatting to online.
MEDIA AND APPS
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Diana Award: Supporting Your Child When They Are Being Bullied
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Kidscape Log: To Help Kids Deal with Bullying
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What Is Bullying? (Video)
Bullying is intentional negative behavior that’s repeated and involves an imbalance of social or physical power.
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Who Is Affected? (Video)
Bullying doesn’t just affect the students being bullied. It can cause emotional harm and reduce academic achievement for all students involved.
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How to Prevent It (Video)
Schools are uniquely positioned to prevent bullying, and effective prevention requires a multi-pronged effort.
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“Bully” Is Not a Noun (Video)
Bullying is not a fixed characteristic. It’s something you can choose to do—or not. A message from bullying prevention expert Mia Doces.
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What Parents Should Know About Bullying: A Two-Part Article
Bullying includes behaviors such as hitting, teasing, taunting, spreading rumors and gossip, stealing, and excluding someone from a group. Bullying actions are carried out on purpose with the intent to harm someone.
• Part 1
• Part 2
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Videos for Younger Kids
Yes, That’s Bullying
The Playground Is for Everyone
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